Those who loose their patience will lost everything.
If you cannot control urself, how u want to control others?
But bear in mind, bukan semua orang u boleh control. Even our own kids pun, kita tak boleh nak kontrol. Especially using force. Apatah lagi orang lain.
Life is about give and take.
But it doesn't mean u can pick and take whatever u want. It's more about giving without expect anything. Take only if it was meant for you, without hurting others.
If you really understand this and practice it in ur daily life, u will be respected, people will look up at u and ur words will be listened.
Embrace urself. Dont be such a baby. People will eventually fade up with ur never ending tantrums. Nanti dari orang kesian, jadi menyampah.